“You are what you make of things, you can make the best of things, or you let them get the best of you, the choice is yours”
I was told the only thing constant in life is change. As much as change can be overwhelming and different, think about where it will take you. To remove yourself from something that is totally comfortable for you can be hard. Change requires trust and that I practice everyday.
Change doesn’t only affect you when you make a choice, it affects others as well, that is if we choose to let it affect us. What if we saw something beneficial with their change that could inspire new change amongst ourselves? What would you discover and what would it teach you? Would you let go and embrace it?
One thing that I do is to step back and fully listen as to why change needs to be present. When I feel change is necessary, I feel it in my gut and within my body. I see that what I am doing no longer fits me anymore. It becomes this circle or dance that feels exhausting. I lose track of who I really am and bits and pieces are being taken away from me. I feel heavy when I should feel light.
It doesn’t matter if people don’t understand what you are doing or if they don’t understand you, what matters is if you understand you. It is only our fear that blocks the releasing of the old that resists the change. So let go of the old and embrace the new, which is change. There are many things waiting out there for you, you just have to tap into them and trust that it is going to be great. The journey is yours.